LIFE LESSONS 102: she might be over you

I am by no means a relationship expert – late 20’s, single mother and all that.  My circumstances are hardly a recipe for a relationship guru and yet, I keep getting asked for advice.  So here is a short, non-exhaustive list of things girls might do if they’re over you:

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  1. If you start wondering what she’s been up to in her day or have to consult her social media because she doesn’t bother to keep you updated, she might be over you;
  2. If her girls’ nights out increase, she might be over you;
  3. If she starts upping her self love and self care, she might be over you;
  4. If she’s in the gym more, she might be over you;
  5. If her responses are short and fleeting, she might be over you;
  6. If she starts missing your calls because her phone isn’t glued to her, she might be over you;
  7. If she starts listening to empowering songs, she might be over you;
  8. If silences between you have turned awkward, she might be over you;
  9. If she stops showing you affection, she might be over you;
  10. If she starts preferring to attend events alone, she might be over you;
  11. If she starts falling asleep without saying ‘goodnight’, she might be over you;
  12. If she drops the pet names, she might be over you;
  13. If she stops texting you first, she might be over you;
  14. If she starts overhauling her wardrobe, she might be over you;
  15. If she drastically changes her hair, she might be over you;
  16. If her level of ‘guy friends’ increase, she might be over you.

IMG_0364Boys, if she’s only exhibiting 1-3 of these, you might be in luck.  There still might be time to sway her.  Anything over that and your chances are decreasing exponentially.   Good luck!


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