It’s been a few months since I went out drinking in the city. The reason for my absence? Let’s just say I’ve never had a dull night out. Saturday night followed the trend.
I can’t believe it’s been three weeks since the surgery. This has been such a wild ride especially with a toddler in tow. But now that I am starting to feel like my old self, I thought I’d share with you ten things I’ve learnt in the last three weeks.
Mum guilt is a bitch. It’s probably the hardest thing I’ve had to deal with since being a mum. The sleepless nights, the coughs and colds that come with childcare, the toddler breakdowns – all a breeze compared to mum guilt.
You know that feeling of contentment after a long, hard day when you fall into bed freshly bathed and knowing that you have nothing to do but rest for the next eight hours? That’s what it feels like when you finally realise you’re going to be okay on your own.
To be honest, becoming a single mother isn’t that much different to when I wasn’t. Looking after Bella alone is something I would generally do even before we separated.